Here's some food for thought:

If you don't want your names mentioned in this blog, tell me. It's as easy as that. Because the norm I'm aware of is not to use aliases or hidden identities but to mention people as you call them in real life. I mean if I really wanted to mess people's lives, I'd mention their full names. But I don't go out mentioning, for example, what Elbert's full name is (and his address, and phone number for that matter). And so far, there's only one party (a clique of friends) that's complaining among the many, many people and groups I've mentioned. =P